General

DanielAviation:
I'm going to vent, you can talk as much trash about me as you want- But this is my experience here.
I've gotten to a point of acceptance where I'm just done with trying to find any relationship related to Feederism. I have gotten scammed here and also cyber bullied.

This is also NOT including the fact where I have gotten such vile sexual harassment from random guys talking about shoving their cocks in my belly button or flat out fantasizing raping me... and I'm just frankly sick and tried of it.

Every single time I have tried to reach out or talk to any person, it has now gotten to the point where there is no progress except and the only way to continue conversations anywhere is with money only, apparently!

It's gotten to a point where I have felt better just "fantasizing" about Feederism than trying to embrace it. The quick dopamine rush is easily as met just thinking about it or creating a scenario in my mind without A horrible dating site making me feel miserable, depressed, and alone.

I just wanted to vent my Frustrations. I honestly do not care what feedback is left here since there are some rude people here that'll just tell me to go leave and that Feederism is a problem on a dating site for people that have this fetish in the community and reinforce that sentiment and tell me horrible things anyways.

DanielAviation:
I'm going to vent, you can talk as much trash about me as you want- But this is my experience here.
I've gotten to a point of acceptance where I'm just done with trying to find any relationship related to Feederism. I have gotten scammed here and also cyber bullied.

This is also NOT including the fact where I have gotten such vile sexual harassment from random guys talking about shoving their cocks in my belly button or flat out fantasizing raping me... and I'm just frankly sick and tried of it.

Every single time I have tried to reach out or talk to any person, it has now gotten to the point where there is no progress except and the only way to continue conversations anywhere is with money only, apparently!

It's gotten to a point where I have felt better just "fantasizing" about Feederism than trying to embrace it. The quick dopamine rush is easily as met just thinking about it or creating a scenario in my mind without A horrible dating site making me feel miserable, depressed, and alone.

I just wanted to vent my Frustrations. I honestly do not care what feedback is left here since there are some rude people here that'll just tell me to go leave and that Feederism is a problem on a dating site for people that have this fetish in the community and reinforce that sentiment and tell me horrible things anyways.

Letters And Numbers:
If you're being scammed, cyber bullied, and harassed, please block and report those users. It's one of the fastest ways we find people who are problems in the community. Sometimes it's the only way, I'm not joking.

I'll also say that calling this site a "dating site" has always seemed weird to me. It's kindof a dating site, but not a dedicated one, so it doesn't do it particularly well. It's a social community, more like what MySpace was 20 years ago. There's arts and forums and chat around a common theme. I think that anyone who expects it to be a robust dating site is always going to be disappointed. It works better as a place to make friends and hang out, read stories, contribute to the discussion. I mean if they wanted to, they could have called it Reality Feeder, but you know...

But seriously, report bad users. It's the flag in their profile.

TonyMangioni:
There are a whole lot of shitty attitudes in this community. Just yesterday on Feabie, I noticed that the Feabie TOS has no rules against sexism. Women are a protected class in their TOS, but men aren't. So there's a bunch of misandrists on there that feel entitled to be the biggest cyberbullies they can possibly be, and there's no way to stop them.

Why is it like this? Well, class analysis tells me that the people who can afford extra food are going to skew more bourgeois than the average population. The bourgeois are already used to being terrible people for a living, so they have no problems bringing that into their sexual lives too. And insofar as feedism represents a community, that community is going to be infected with those bourgeois values.

So, I would recommend that you pursue feedist partners outside of this community. They exist, in fact there's probably far more outside the community than inside, they just don't know the word. They won't be as corrupted by this terrible mindset and you'll be likelier to find someone. Good luck in your search.

TonyMangioni:
Huh, I have a cabin in Nevada. Small world.

There's plenty of big girls in Utah, and plenty of feedees I'd wager. Just try to find places where non-Mormons (who are less likely to have hangups about fetishes) gather and you'll probably run into them. My car broke down in Ogden a few months ago and I spent some time in a coffee shop waiting for a tow, and ran across like six big girls in just the hour I had to wait. I'm sure you can find some if you get out there and put your mind to it.